The Power of Giving Someone Access to Your Field

The people you spend the most time with shape you more than you can imagine..

Why?

Because energy is contagious. And even though we can't see energy with the visible eye, it's still there and it affects us more than we can imagine.. For good or worse..

When you spend time with someone, or allow them into your field, as in your auric field (you are giving them permission to read and connect with your thought forms, emotions and energetic signature. That means as soon as you meet someone and start to give them access to your field, or when you get access to their field, as in starting to open up to each other and share about your thoughts, dreams and ideas you are opening up a portal between the two of you where energy can travel, it's like you are communicating beyond just the words you are speaking and the physical bodies.)

Ways you can give someone access to your energy-field, by looking at them by thinking about them by writing to them, by speaking to them, by inviting them into your home, by hanging out with them, by following them on Instagram and/or the most intense way to share energy with someone is through sex, intimacy, sacred energy exchange. This is basically like putting in a socket of electricity between you and another person, which is why sometimes after sleeping with someone you can feel anxious, paranoid, worried, low self-esteem or really confident, or unsure of yourself depending on what energy you have picked up.

As women, and as priestesses, it's more important than ever to protect your energy field and energy space and only share energy with people who are benevolent, meaning having your best interest at hand, not just opening yourself up and emptying yourself sexually, (of your life force) or giving, giving, giving sexual pleasure from a low place of self-worth in order to receive recognition or worth from the outside world. You want to build healthy intimate connections with people who are careful with you, caring for you, through receiving you back with awareness, sensitivity and equal energy exchange, meaning it's not just one person in the relationship doing all the work (initiating contact, sending messages, asking if you can meet or planning/taking care of things). 

Many women operate from a distorted masculine energy with a wounded feminine energy of low sense of self worth. In this case many women, seek validation, their sense of worth and value from men, outside of themselves, as a reassurance to feel good inside. This is like a chase that can go on for a long time before a woman wakes up (sometimes through hard lessons) to the fact that she is a queen and deserves to be treated and cared for like a queen. The truth is though, that a man can not give you what you haven't given to yourself, and the masculine will always mirror the divine feminine energy back to her. When a woman awakens to her inner queendom and starts activating her masculine powers of assertion, protection, boundaries and self-care she is drawing her divine masculine closer to her to reflect that inner energy of self-care and self-love back to her. It's never true that the outside world gives us what we want, or that we need to get something from the outside world to be complete, worthy or whole. It's always the opposite that's true, the outside world is just a reflection. And the inner work we do, is therefore just a catalyst for the external world to rearranging itself based on how we treat ourselves, how we think of ourselves and how we think of the world.

When we spend time with someone, maybe sometimes you've noticed that when you come home you start to have thoughts or act in ways that you usually wouldn't, it's most likely that you've picked up on their energy and it's affecting you.

Who we invite to our space and who we spend time with is extremely important to think about and evaluate. All of our precious energy needs to be contained, cared for and nurtured, everyday for us to function as spiritual beings. <3

Sometimes, it's better to be alone than to be in the wrong company, and sometimes it's better to walk alone than to follow the crowd, if the crowd is going in the wrong direction.

It's important to ask for help, if we need it, and give help when we can, but it's also important to protect our energy field and fields. <3 If we are hurt, or sad, lonely, or confused it's even more important to take care of ourselves, as when we are in lower vibrational energies, we tend to attract more of that to us.. And the cycle can be harder to break if we keep spiraling down in negativity or sadness.. <3

With this post I just want to remind you to get clear on what kind of relationships you want to have around you and also to set healthy boundaries and protect yourself.